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December 5, 2012

What does it mean to be a neighbor?

Eleanor Bradley was shopping on 5th avenue In Manhattan, when she tripped and broke her leg. Dazed and in shock she called for help for forty minutes. No one stopped. Shoppers, executives, students, everyone walked around her and stepped over her. Finally, after hundreds of people had passed by, a cab driver pulled over, helped her into his cab, and took her to a hospital.

What does it mean to be a neighbor?


The opposite of love is not hate.
It is something much cooler, more pallid,
and really much more cruel
The opposite of love is indifference.

-- William Hague

  • Do you agree with William Hague? Why or why not?
  • Who was your favorite neighbor when you were a child? Did you have a neighbor that all the children in the neighborhood loved … or … feared?
  • Can you think of a time when a complete stranger acted like a neighbor to you?



Luke 10:25-29
25 On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. "Teacher," he asked, "what must I do to inherit eternal life?" 26 "What is written in the Law?" he replied. "How do you read it?" 27 He answered: " 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind'; and, 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'" 28 "You have answered correctly," Jesus replied. "Do this and you will live." 29 But he wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, "And who is my neighbor?"

  • Why did the lawyer want to justify himself?
  • Why did Jesus tell this story as His answer to the lawyer?
  • What is the connection between loving God and loving people?
  • Jesus said these two will bring life. We can usually understand how loving God will bring life, but how will loving people bring life to us?


Luke 10:30-32
30 "A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he fell into the hands of robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. 31 A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. 32 So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side.

  • What reasons, religious or not, could the priest and Levite invent that would stop them from offering help?
  • Describe the conflicts between being an official representative of God and choosing to avoid compassion.


Luke 10:33-35
33 But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. 34 He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, took him to an inn and took care of him. 35 The next day he took out two silver coins and gave them to the innkeeper. 'Look after him,' he said, 'and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.'

  • Identify the six action verbs that describe the Samaritan in verse 34.
  • How do these actions fill out or illustrate the meaning of compassion?
  • Explain the risk that the Samaritan took in verse 35.


Luke 10:36-37
36 "Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?" 37 The expert in the law replied, "The one who had mercy on him." Jesus told him, "Go and do likewise."

  • Jesus asked the lawyer to identify the person who was a “neighbor,” but the lawyer could not bring himself to say the word “Samaritan.” Why?
  • Compare the lawyer’s question in verse 25 with Jesus’ question in verse 36. How did they use the term “neighbor” in different ways and how did Jesus change the whole question?


  • We don’t usually find victims along the road, so where is the roadside where we find people in need of compassion today?
  • Is the “compassion” given out today usually careful or risky? Why?
  • What kind of person would you be least likely to stop and help? Who would you be most likely to stop and help? Explain the difference.
  • Who are some “Good Samaritans” that you personally know? Why do you think of them in this way?
  • Ask God to show you what compassion really means and to give you an opportunity this week be His Samaritan.